A few times per month I’ll get an email from someone asking for advice. Most of the time the questions I get deal with one of a few different topics: -How should I balance my stock portfolio? Answer: Sell! Sell! Sell! For god’s sake sell! -How do you get your hair so full and manageable:…
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A man with a strong submissive and kinky side. I write (in the loosest sense of the word), podcast and socialize in New York City
Tag Archive: advice
There’s No Gentlemanly Way To Ask…
Asking for something I’m curious about is pretty much impossible for me. Asking for something I already enjoy is equally difficult. It comes down to a few things. -It’s hard to not sound like a do-me sub if I were to ask for something. -If a guy asks a woman then it’s creepy. If…
Don’t Put Up With That Shit
A friend of mine has been having problems with a submissive guy she’s been playing with. Most of their sex has been leaning toward vanilla lately. Not because she’s not in the mood, it’s because he’s not in the mood. He just hasn’t felt very submissive lately. I’ve heard this complaint from a number of…
Boyfriend Comes Out, Girlfriend Needs Your Help
I’ve always had great emails from readers. I normally try to tackle these myself but this one might be a bit out of my experience level. I asked if it was cool for me to publish her email (removing all identifying information of course) in hopes that some of you may have a few ideas…
Submissive Or Slave?
I had an interesting yet frustrating conversation with someone who questioned why I call myself submissive and not a slave. For those of you that don’t know, there always seems to be a big argument in the BDSM community over who should call themselves submissive and who should call themselves a slave. Frankly I stopped…
