Friends

Found Femdom And A New Podcast

· May 12, 2009 · Found Femdom · , , , · 5 Comments

I’m really running low on Found Femdom images, feel free to link or email me more when you see ’em.

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I like this one because it’s simple and sexy. Makes me wonder what the story is here. Did he just help her up? Is he about to help her down?

The one part I’m unsure of is wether or not she’s looking at him with distain, lust or apathy.

As for the podcast, I have to say I’m really really enjoying recording these. I’m actually kinda proud at how people have reacted to them. Thanks to everyone who’s donating to keep the bandwidth costs covered and everyone who keeps spreading the word.

Mia, from the I Want Your Sex podcast, talks about her good and bad experiences in going to sex parties, the things she’s into that she doesn’t podcast about, homophobia and advice to those who are curious in going to sex parties.

I’ll admit, this episode does get a bit self-serving at times since sex parties have been a long-time curiosity of mine as you know.

Download Mia’s podcast at MiaOnTop.com or on iTunes.

Listen to the podcast here, or subscribe in iTunes by clicking the link below.

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Have It Your Way

· April 30, 2009 · Thoughts · , , , , , , · 15 Comments

We were having dinner one night. Throughout the meal she had been complaining about not being able to find a guy to fuck her (her words) the way she wanted.

“All I want is a guy who can get it up and can last more than ten minutes and can fuck me fast and hard or slow and soft, depending on my mood. Is that too much to ask for?”.

She had broken up with her boyfriend a few months ago and her biggest complaint was their unequal sexual appetites. She was one of the few vanilla friends I had that knew about my…. interests.

Me: Why don’t you find a submissive guy?

Her:Um I don’t want to tie up and gag a guy, I just want him to fuck me the way I want.

Me: Most of the sex I have has nothing to do with rope. Usually it’s with either me on top or my head between her legs.

Her: What about doggy style? Do you do doggy style?

Me: What do you think? That I’d tell her I don’t want to have sex in a position just because it’s not with me on the bottom? That sounds more selfish than submissive.

Her: So you’ll fuck her hard and you don’t see that as being dominant?

Me: You mean I do it the way that gets her off and I don’t see it as being dominant? No!

She looked at me in disbelief and started throwing a bunch of what-ifs at me.

Her: What if she wanted you to fuck her in the ass instead of her putting on a strap-on? Would you do it?

Me: Are you drunk? Of course I would.

Her: And you don’t see that as being dominant at all? What if she wanted you and another guy to double-team her?

Me: I’ve done that before.

Her: What? And you two weren’t dominant?

Me: The other guy was vanilla and it was clear that it was all about her so….no.

Her: What if she wanted to get on her knees and go down on you?

Me: Are you insane? What part of “if she’s getting off, then I’m getting off” don’t you understand?

Her: So do you make her spank you after you’ve done something dominant? You know, to even yourself out again?

I could tell she was just giving me shit at this point. Trying to push my buttons. I didn’t answer her.

After a minute or two of silence and deep thinking on her part, she asked me:

“Can you help me write an ad looking for a submissive on Craigslist?”

Rope Dummy

· April 23, 2009 · Thoughts · , · 5 Comments

My best friend ties me up as her test dummy.

I have another friend who will use me in this way as well. I’m someone to practice on before a big date or just to hone their skills.

My best friend, BondageFreaky does it more often. She’ll usually walk up to me while she’s got a look on her face as though she’s deep in thought. I know she’s got a new bondage position in mind. Something she hasn’t tried before or something she wants to perfect.

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It’s brings us closer together as friends. She gets practice in rope and I get to give her feedback on what feels better or what hurts more. If there’s one area of my body losing circulation or another in a position that can’t be held for long durations.

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Sometimes I get into the zone, similar to how I feel at the end of a long yoga session. If the position is taxing I’ll find myself collapsing onto the couch or in a big chair while she has a smile on her face knowing she tested me.

It’s nice to experience rope for the sake of rope. It’s nice to be experimented on and also see how much fun she’s having as the rope goes flying. I like being able to offer suggestions on improving a position, knowing that when she ties up a submissive later, they’ll both have more fun because of my feedback.

She comes up with some of the most unique and evil positions I’ve ever seen. I’m trying to convince her to start photographing them more often.

How she sometimes improvises something that turns out to be both constrictive and visually appealing always a surprises to me.

I’m a pretty lucky guy, being able to get my rope fix while helping a friend at the same time.

Don’t Put Up With That Shit

· April 7, 2009 · Thoughts · , , · 18 Comments

A friend of mine has been having problems with a submissive guy she’s been playing with. Most of their sex has been leaning toward vanilla lately. Not because she’s not in the mood, it’s because he’s not in the mood.

He just hasn’t felt very submissive lately.

I’ve heard this complaint from a number of women. Fun stuff they used to do has been pushed aside and now the guy’s just interested in having his orgasm and going to bed.

She told me her initial reaction was to put him in chastity to make him more agreeable but he declined. Now she’s feeling less dominant and more antsy to get the kind of kink she wants.

I’m not blaming the guy (well maybe a little), who really knows what’s going on in his head. Maybe he has other things going on in his life that are putting a damper on his submissive side and he needs to focus on that or maybe he’s just a douche who told her he wanted the same kinky stuff she wanted just so he could get inside her pants.

My advice to her was to go find it somewhere else. If she sat down and had the conversation with him and their desires didn’t match, she should just yell “Next!” and meet up with one of the other hundred thousand guys who’d love to get beaten, tied up, fucked and who knows what.

There’s no reason for any woman to put up with not getting her sexual needs met. I don’t care of she’s dominant, submissive or vanilla. If you’re not getting fucked the way you want then maybe you need to add another guy or girl or two or three to the mix until you are getting everything you want.

If there’s something you’re into and your current guy isn’t doing it for you, just pop and ad on craiglist and within minutes you’ll hundreds of guys replying. Sure not all of them are what you’re looking for but you’ll at least see one or two in there.   

And don’t pay any attention to what guys actually say on their first email to you. They’re not actually thinking when they write these things. The emails that appear intelligent were probably written months ago and they’re just copying and pasting. Besides, don’t you want a guy who’s desperate to please you and give you what you want? After all, you met this other guy who’s not so desperate and look where that’s gotten you. You’re placing an ad on craigslist.

If you find them attractive (photos, not words) then reply and set the tone in your response. He’ll probably be so shocked that you actually replied that he’ll probably be willing to give you his social security number at that point. Hell even I’m willing to give you some of the numbers in mine right now: 078. See! And I haven’t even met you yet.

As long as the guy doesn’t come across as a total nutjob then meet him for a drink, you’ll be able to tell within minutes. If you’re not into him then go meet numbers 2 through 8438349 who emailed you.

Women who want hot crazy sex are too rare to waste their time on a guy who won’t give it to them.

Guy Friends

· February 22, 2009 · Thoughts · · 7 Comments

Guy friend #1: Oh, c’mon. What’s more important, going to see some woman or staying here and getting drunk with your friends?

Me: I’m sure you’ll have fun without me.

I know they really want me to come along because I’m the only single guy in the group. They like to watch me talk to women, flirt with them and live vicariously through me.

Guy friend #2: Well just go over there, bang her, then join us afterwards.

I’m guessing they’d freak out if I told them that she was the one who banged me.

Me: I usually spend the night.

Guy friend #3: She better make you breakfast in the morning.

Me: Actually, usually make her breakfast.

Guy friend #1: She better give you a blowjob in exchange for breakfast.

I’m wondering how it is these guys are in relationships.

Me: Oh I’m sure she’ll have something fun in mind.

Guy Friend #2: You’re pussy whipped.

Me: Oh and if I back out on her to join you, would that make me dick whipped? I’ll take pussy whipped any day.

If they had any idea what would be happening when I saw her, they’d probably shit themselves.

Most of my vanilla female friends know about my “interests”. One in fact referred to my interest in kink as my “unspeakable acts”. Hence the name that I’m now regretting. I have no vanilla guy friends that I can feel comfortable enough with to tell them about myself. Some I’ve known for more than ten years and yet they have no clue.

Maybe that’s why I have more female friends than male. Sure some of my female friends are former friends-with-benefits but I’ve always been able to stay friends afterwards. I prefer the company of women over men in my platonic relationships as well. I’ve never known why.

Maybe because they’re more accepting.

Maybe because they look and smell better.

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