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The Event Of The Year, And It’s A Wedding Party

I can’t tell you how excited I am to be able to celebrate the wedding of two of my favorite people. Even if you don’t know them you can help celebrate as well!

I met Yin a few years ago and have been blessed by her and Richard’s friendship and the friendship of the people they surround themselves with.

Mistress Yin and her Manmeat Richard’s Fetish Wedding Gala will be this Thursday the 27th. The second I heard about it I took the day after off of work. Yes, it’s such an important event that I used up one of my limited vacation days so I could enjoy it until the wee hours of the morning.

It starts at 8pm and you need to RSVP to [email protected] in order to make it. Hurry! Email now so you can make it to the guest list!

What to expect?

-D.J. Spun

-Cabaret Performers

-Sweets served by sexy servants

-Live bondage sculptures

And of course, Yin and Richard.

I’ve alway looked at their relationship with awe. Ever since I saw them together I thought “I want that one day”. It’s great to see two of the nicest, sweetest and kinkiest people I know getting hitched.

If you’re not in NYC and can’t make it, you can at least enjoy the hottest and most romantic wedding party invite I’ve ever seen:

Extra Extra! A New Podcast Is up!

In this episode I have a conversation with Dov.

We sit in central park and discuss growing up kinky in New York, the good and bad of BDSM organizations, how to find play partners and more.

You can listen on the Masocast website or subscribe in iTunes by clicking below.   

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As always feel free to leave a comment or email me. I’m always looking for more people to interview so let me know if you or someone you know is up for it.

Cheers!

Oh and yes, I’m saving up for new recording equipment so I hope to dramatically improve the audio quality by the end of the year.

My First Suspension

Being suspended has always been a daydream of mine. A fantasy that I’ve played over and over in my head. Either hanging from the rafters and getting fucked or beaten or teased or….well…anything. Suspension always seemed to add a layer of vulnerability.

Well, I finally got to try it.

I was at a Suspension party here in New York (fitting of course) with a few friends and out of the blue, Troy Orleans walks up to me and says “Hey, I was going to suspend someone but I can’t find him. Would you mind?”

Would I???

I’m sure she could see how excited I was by the idea and before long she was running rope under, over and around my body. I have been around a lot of people getting suspended and I always thought it took much longer for most people to the hoisted up.

It was much more comfortable than I thought it would be. The rope was cushioned by my leather pants and T-shirt. I’m not sure if the rope would have felt as though it was digging into my skin without it or not but I was really enjoying myself.

I wasn’t sure if Troy was sick of hearing me talk or if she just knew I like to have something in my mouth but a few seconds later she had a ballgag in place as I swayed there. I’d email her about it later and she said, “I brought that ball gag expressly for you in case we had the opportunity to play there. It wasn’t to get you to shut up, it was for your oral habit…

There I was, finally suspended. Swaying back and forth around a hundred or so people. It was peaceful. It felt similar to yoga as I drifted into a similar state of mind.

I’m not sure how long I was up there, it felt like 5 maybe 10 minutes but it was more like three times that. Eventually she let me down, I gave her a big hug with a silly grin on my face and two friends who were watching gave me big smiles as well.

To Troy and the guy she couldn’t find: Thank you

I Don’t Normally Do This But….

Purple Passion is a BDSM store here in NYC. Hilton (the owner) has been a big supporter of the community, he’s helped promote and even opened a big area of his store from time to time to host classes/demos.

You can read more about the what’s going on Viviane’s blog.

Long story short? The economy sucks. You can help support Purple Passion and by doing so will be supporting many of the sex-positive events that Purple Passion supports by getting some sex toys damnit!

This is the first real advertisement on this blog and I’m doing it without even being asked nor am I getting paid for it. (Odd timing since I just posted about wether or not I should start putting ads up)

So it’s more of a call to action than an advertisement.

In store sale:

30% off leather clothing and leather corsets

20% off everything else.

Sale ends Sat August 15th 2009

No Holds, layaways or other discounts apply.

Just go to Purple Passion and start getting your kink on.

On a more personal note. Purple Passion was the first BDSM store I ever walked into. I was nervous as hell and could barely even look anyone in the eye when I walked in the door. Hilton was working that day and after I could see he wasn’t the kind of guy who I thought would be working at a BDSM store (Don’t ask me what kind of guy I imagined) I felt much more comfortable and…well….normal for being in a BDSM store.

Kink For All NYC Returns!

I’m so excited to see Kink For All NYC back in almost half a year since the last one. It’s free, you’ll see presentations you wouldn’t normally see at kink events because it’s not your normal kink event (one of the many reasons why it’s so good).

You can hear a conversation I had with Maymay about Kink For All here.

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PLEASE COPY AND CROSSPOST THIS MESSAGE FREELY.

KinkForAll is an ad-hoc informational unconference on sexuality for anyone and everyone. KinkForAll draws participants from an astounding range of sexuality-related communities. Anyone with the desire to learn or with
something to contribute is welcome and invited to participate.

Vitals
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What: The second no-limits sex-positive gender and sexuality unconference of New York City.
Why: To inspire a creative, interactive and open environment where everyone feels comfortable talking, learning, and being inspired by all kinds of sexuality.
When: August 8th, 2009
Where: *The **LGBT Center**, **208 West 13th Street, New York.** *
Who: Everyone
How much: FREE (as in beer as well as freedom)

Details
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KinkForAll is an ad-hoc gathering born from the desire for people of the kink, queer, sex-positive and related communities to share and learn in an open environment. It is an intense event with discussions, presentations, and interaction from all participants. (It is inspired by the BarCamp community.)

ANYONE WITH SOMETHING TO CONTRIBUTE OR WITH THE DESIRE TO LEARN IS WELCOME AND INVITED TO JOIN. When you attend, be prepared to share with others. When you leave, be prepared to share it with the world.

A KinkForAll is a special kind of gathering because there are no spectators, only participants. Attendees must give a talk or a presentation, help with one, or otherwise volunteer/contribute in some way to support the event. This is called sharing and we like it. All presentations are scheduled the day they happen—there are no pre-scheduled presentations or keynote addresses. The people present at the event will select the presentations they want to see.

Anyone can present, on any topic related to sexuality. You do not necessarily have to teach a new skill or idea. You might share an experience, review a product, or read a poem. The goal is to start a discussion, make connections, and exchange knowledge. Presentations promoting specific commercial products or companies are discouraged.

Learn more about what to expect at http://kinkforall.pbwiki.com/WhatToExpect

Learn more about the event guidelines at
http://kinkforall.pbwiki.com/TheRulesOfKinkForAll

Get Involved
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We need your help in spreading the word. Please help by participating.

Here’s how:

1. Get excited by reading the ideas on
http://kinkforall.pbwiki.com/KinkForAllNewYorkCity2
2. Add your name or handle to the list of participants
3. Join the mailing list and introduce yourself by emailing
[email protected]

Still have questions? Read the Frequently Asked Questions at
http://kinkforall.pbwiki.com/FrequentlyAskedQuestions

or email [email protected] for more details.

KinkForAll Online
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Participate online before the event at your favorite social networking web site:

Homepage: http://KinkForAll.org
Google: http://groups.google.com/group/kinkforall
Twitter: http://twitter.com/KinkForAll
Identica: http://identi.ca/kinkforall
Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/pages/KinkForAll/40066342762
Fetlife: http://fetlife.com/groups/2962

All primary organizational efforts are being coordinated via the mailing list. Join for free and help turn ideas into realities!

http://groups.google.com/group/kinkforall