Black T-Shirt And Leather Pants

Black T-Shirt And Leather Pants. That’s pretty much all I own.

I’ve mentioned before that, when it comes to clothing, I’m at a complete loss. I’m lucky enough to have a job that allows me to wear a T-shirt and jeans every day.

Wait! The jobs that require ties are the ones that pay more? Aw fuck.

When it comes to fetish wear I’m at a loss as well. A friend helped me pick out the leather pants I wear to every event and they’re both comfortable and functional since I wouldn’t be allowed in to most events without them.

Yes, my pants are the key to my kink world.

Lately i’ve had more and more people ask me if I own anything else. It’s been suggested that I might want to mix it up a bit.

“Latex” one friend urged. “You’ve GOT to get some latex”.

She suggested I buy latex short shorts and go shirtless or wear the latex shirt I’ve only worn once. While this does sound like an economically sound answer, I should also mention she’s the same person who enjoys watching me get hit on by men.

I don’t think I’ve ever heard a woman say “ohh look at the guy in the latex short shorts! Lets go play with him!”

Another friend suggested assless chaps. Assless chaps seem like they’d be a big pain in the exposed ass. In the winter you need to worry about frostbite and in the summer it’s mosquitoes. Plus, if you’re at a crowed fetish party and you need to navigate though the crowd, how do you politely rub your ass on a stranger to squeeze through?

“Pardon me, my bare ass coming through.”

This may be yet another reason why I’m curious about CFNM (See wikipedia). You cant get easier than naked. No need to worry about what nipples goes with what elbow. If your body parts don’t go together you can just blame evolution.

So, for now, just expect to see me in my old standby.

Two Halloween Parties

All week I looked and looked for something that goes with this: IMG_1404.jpg Someone suggested PVC pants but I’ve never worn PVC before. … It’s one of those places where you know you’ll be around the kind of people you’d bring with you if you were going to colonize mars.

Funny Emails From Vanilla Woman

So I’ve joined Nerve.com after a very very long break. My profile only briefly mentions kink in any way but I’m not going to hide it. I don’t want to waste my time with someone who isn’t aware of what she’s getting into. Sure if I were made of money it would be a different story. Not to mention I hate going through the motions of acting vanilla only to have the woman freak out and get pissed that I didn’t mention my submission from the beginning. The majority of the profile is very clean and does make me sound pretty vanilla actually. I talk about growing up on a farm, my musical tastes, what I enjoy in life ect.

Over the past few day’s I’ve had some interesting emails.

I emailed one woman and had this response:

“Sorry, there can only be one sub in the bedroom, and it has to be me! But I am sure we’ll both find what we’re looking for.


Ok, well, at least she was nice.

-After one woman winked at me I sent her an email thanking me for the wink. She then read my profile further and replied with this:

“so sometimes i’ll casually hurl a wink based on raw instinct/curiosity, without dissecting a profile too much … didn’t catch the BDSM “Update” section …
i’m actually very open-minded about the whole delicious world of sex and touch, but hawking for partners online seems … skeevy.
(and unless your recent dates have been nuns, i think you’ll find women are open to lots of things, once they feel safe & trust the guy …)
thanks for emailing, still seem like a cool guy, just don’t want to mislead you into thinking i own handcuffs.”

I wanted to reply with “oh? You must know a lot about dating vanilla women. They really seem open do they? Wow, I’ll remember that next time a woman says “eww” to me when I mention BDSM. Oh and thanks for calling me skeevy. I feel great about myself now.

-Another woman was very nice with her lack of interest.

“It’s funny, i imagine that the statistics are stacked against you a little bit. If you are lucky enough to get a kinky girl – i bet its probably more likely she is going to be submissive. Culturally, i imagine that is just a how it goes more often than not. but, I’m sure they are out there. . . . and you seem like a great guy and deserve it all – good luck out there.”

-Yet another tried to offer some helpful advice

“I think you’re looking in the wrong place for a kinky girl. I am sure there are lots of women on websites like alt. If you join a group like tes.org/beta I’m sure you will meet someone in no time.”

Well at least she was trying to help.

One woman has said she’d be up for getting drinks sometime as long as I didn’t show up wearing “leather and spikes”. That’s much better luck than I expected.

Putting away my leather and spikes now and hope she emails back soon.