Curious Things

I was asked to make a list of the things I’m most curious about. Thing I’ve had on my must-try-before-I-die list.

Chastity- Maymay wrote about his extended chastity here. Obviously my daydreams aren’t nearly as close as what the reality would probably be. I imagine being locked up and taken out whenever she (whoever she is) wants me. More of an anti-masturbation device than a no-orgasm device. Who knows, maybe she’ll want me locked up for longer durations, or maybe not locked up at all.

CBT- I have limited experience in this area but the hints of it that I’ve experienced have been eye opening. Probably because there are a million wonderfully evil things a woman can do in this area. As with all kinds of pain, it’s limited to those who really get off on giving pain. I hate the idea of feeling pain anywhere but I love the idea of taking the pain for someone who gets off on giving it. Everything from sounds, bondage, clamps, clothespins, you name it and I’m curious about it. The mental image of sounds is enough to make me whimper.

Anal play- I’ve experienced strap-on play a few times. A few times isn’t nearly enough. I’ve only experienced the wonders of the prostate once for maybe a minute. My head nearly exploded. There’s also something very intriguing about plugs and hooks. I have no idea what the appeal of anal play is for a dominant woman. Is it the idea of violating a man? I know what the appeal is on my end of things but the motivation for a woman escapes me. If I knew the motivation it might help me find someone to motivate into doing it.

Predicament Bondage- I was talking to someone the other night who mentioned how much she loved doing it to her boyfriend. I hadn’t thought much about it until I saw how much she loved it. Her face lit up with this genuine evil smile. It’s motivated me enough to read more about it and keep my eyes open for someone with an evil smile.

Electrical play- Nuff said. This is a big question mark for me. I’ve heard it can be either very painful or very pleasurable.

Hypnosis- I’ve heard it’s intense.

Owned- I know now that my previous goal (I wrote about it here) of having a weekend where I was totally owned and controlled by someone is totally unrealistic. Finding someone who wants to own me for a few hours might be more attainable.

Submissive Triggers

I’ve recently heard the phrase “submissive triggers”.

They were explained to me as things that put someone in a more submissive mindset.

For me, breathing puts me into a more submissive mindset.

Ok there are a few triggers I’ve learned recently.

-Being called “boy” for example. That’s a new one I’ve recently discovered.

-Pinching a nipple or a gentle grab of my ass.

-Sometimes saying the word “now” will do it.

-An evil smile.

-One woman only needs to look at me in a certain way and I get all nervous and jumpy. Of course she can send me a simple text message asking about my day and I’ll feel submissive….still…it works.

Maybe it has little to do with the action but more to do with who’s doing it.

This makes me think of conditioning. I’ve been reading more about training a submissive to react a certain way to certain stimuli.

Hypnosis is yet another curiosity I’ve added to my ever-growing list of things to try.

Orgasms on command? I have heard of this in women, but men? I’m very skeptical.

I’m not talking about someone ordering a submissive to cum after long periods of being turned on. I’m talking about going from 0 – 60 with one word. I’ve read about it done with submissive women, but submissive men?

I have yet to find any evidence.