Thoughts

Dominant Triggers

A while ago I wrote about some of my physical submissive triggers.

Of course these triggers don’t mean a thing if a woman doesn’t want to dominate me in the first place.

Debauchette recently wrote about someone she knows who brings out the dominance in women.

“Andrew had the tendancey to bring out the dominant side in women. He certainly brings out all of my own dominant impulses”.

I suppose this makes sense. There are qualities a woman can have that make me want to submit to her, make it impossible for me not to want to please her.

This begs (and I do mean begs) the question: What aspects of a guy make you want to tear into him?

I know a number of women who are attracted to very vanilla guys, the thought of corrupting them turns them on. Others like to dominate aggressive guys in order to put them in their place. Both of those examples are the opposite of who I am.

It would be nice if a potentially dominant woman had a road sign on her head so I could know how to navigate to bring that out of her.

“OK, if I take a right turn at being aloof and a left at being cocky you’ll want to fuck me until we pass out, BUT if I head south on shy avenue you’ll want to do that and fuck me with a strap-on after whipping me to tears.”

So what does it for you? What brings out your dominance?

Someone Shy? Coy? Eager To Please? An alpha male you want to put in his place?

Celebrity Dom/sub: Fiona & Clive

Hey, why the hell not. Feel free go make your guesses in the comments.

Again, the rules of the game are wether or not they are Dom or sub in their personal lives, not who would be the dominant one if they were together.

Fiona Apple and Clive Owen.

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He looks like he’s probably submissive (all the cool, good looking guys are. Aren’t they?).

She is dominant. Obviously. Right?

I mean she wrote lyrics about girls breaking boys after all.

Plus, the look on her face is always one of…..”I’m gonna rip you to shreds”.

A Few Random Thoughts

– I need a haircut.

Right now it looks like this:

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I’m thinking of changing it to this:

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-I went to this website. It’s not what I was hoping it would be.

-I love Ingrid Michaelson’s voice. She sounds like a combo of Leona Naess and Fiona Apple.

Breakable

-I really need to get out of debt. I wonder if being a professional submissive would pay anything? It could be one of those funny things where giving it away for free is impossible but charging for it increases demand. Like bottled water.

-Every day I’m reminded at how valuable my friendships are and what a lucky S.O.B. I am.

-I’ve had this song stuck in my head for days.

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Does that make me a masochist?

No Talking

She had sent me several text messages over the course of the day just to torment me:

“Too bad you can’t suck on my clit with a gag in your mouth”

“I adore you….you make me laugh, you make me cum, you please me. Part of me hates you because of it”

“I plan to use your cock until I’m sick of it.”

“After tonight I want to see you again soon. Shall I make an appointment with your cock now or does it need to check it’s schedule?”

“Your tongue is like queludes”

Then she sent her instructions:

“I want all of your toys laid out for me along with a fresh tea and a bottle of water. No talking unless I tell you to. If you make one peep I’m leaving”

As soon as she walked in she had a big smile on her face. A great big…greedy smile.

My mouth watered as my eyes took in her long, perfectly shaped legs.

“You are so fucked” she said to me with a wicked grin as she sat down on my chair and pointed to the floor next to her.

I sat down on the floor and she just sat there smiling, petting my head and occasionally rubbing her foot on my groin.

I was in heaven.

Podcasting Anyone?

I’m considering starting a podcast.

Radio was my first love and my first real career. I was in it for years and years (gave it up to move to NYC).

I’m thinking of just a conversational round table of people casually talking about the lifestyle.

To do this it would require having a few people who were interested in doing the same. Using the miracles of technology, you wouldn’t even need to be in New York to do it (though sitting around a table wouldn’t be bad either).

There are a number of podcasts out there that I’ve been really impressed with and figure another voice or voices couldn’t hurt.

The last thing I’d want is to just have me blabbering on about something for an hour

Anyone interested in yapping a bit now and then or think it may be something interesting to listen to?

Feel free to email my over-talkative ass if you’re interested or have any suggestions.

Or…you know…comment:)