I really don’t enjoy most femdom porn. Yeah I know I’m not the first to bring this up.
Sure there’s a part of me that likes it to some degree, but it’s a low degree.
The reason? You can tell that most of them are designed to cater to the malesub fantasies and not for most dominant women.
It’s the same reason I can’t go to a Pro, she’s be doing it for me not for her.
They’re all the same too, seen one you’ve seen them all.
A stern model take a male sub and pretty much does everything to him that every male sub wants. Very rarely does it look like the woman is really really enjoying it.
Men In Pain is probably the biggest one out there.
You don’t even need to pay to become a member to know what the formula is.
A: Hot woman ties up boy
B: Hot woman spanks/whips/flogs boy
C:Hot woman “forces” boy to have sex with her and usually doesn’t even fake an orgasm
D:Hot woman uses a strap-on on boy.
E: Hot woman “forces” boy to orgasm.
They even end with they guy’s orgasm. It’s like they’re saying “ok now that he’s done so is the scene because that was the important part”.
Now I won’t lie, I’ve paid memberships to it before, I’m one of the bad guys. Just because it’s bad, it’s still the closest thing I can find.
Yes, I’ve jerked off to it (hey I didn’t say I was perfect), but even then there have been a few times where I just couldn’t suspend my disbelief enough. Maybe the “domme” was overacting, or maybe it just seemed like the guy clearly didn’t even care about pleasing her. I know a few dominant women who have paid for membership as well. Did they get off on it? Did they enjoy it even a little? I don’t know.
There are a few companies out there that make porn by women for women, maybe someday we’ll have femdom by Dommes for Dommes.
I’m not saying femdom porn should reflect reality, it shouldn’t, it’s porn, but it should at least try harder. Shouldn’t they?