I looked into going to Dark Odyssey on Valentines. I spoke to a few people about it, some said I really needed to go, others said it’s fun but not anything entirely different from what I’ve been to. It’s less BDSM focused than TESFest, Floating World, MAST and other events. Again I have no clue if Dark Odyssey would be my kinda thing or not. I did have an IM conversation with someone who has gone in the past:
Her: What do you want to experience at D.O.?
Me: I want to play with a woman I’m attracted to.
Her: Did you get any at Tes Fest?
Me: Define “get any”.
Her: Did you have any from of sex?
Her: What were you going to say?
Me: Calico grabbed my butt for about a half a second and another woman helped me pick out a cock ring.
Her: Have you ever used the cock ring?
Her: Money well spent. What about Floating World?
Her: What was your feeling coming away from all of these events?
Me: I think I said “I could have stayed at home and not had sex, why spend money to go somewhere and not have sex?”. It was nice to see friends though.
Her: You can see friends any time you want. I think you probably shouldn’t go to anything like this again unless you’re going with a woman who is going specifically to fuck you. I can see why you’d feel down after going to a weekend play party where everyone is having sex but you.
Me: Well, I wasn’t the only one not having sex.
Her: These places, they keep selling sex, you keep buying but you never get any. Are you stupid? Stop giving them their money! You would love D.O. if you had someone to fuck you but you don’t. Focus on looking for someone who wants to go with you, then you’ll have fun. Do you have any interest in the classes?
Me: Why would I want to go to a class and watch something that no one at the class will want to do to me? If I wanted to hear someone talk about something I’ll never experience, I’d go to church.
Her: Zing! You’re angry. I like you when you’re angry.
Me: Not angry, just feisty.
Her: I like you when you’re feisty then.
Me: I’m going to copy and paste this into my blog.
Her: You’re a big nerd for having a blog.
I should say that there have been many classes that I have enjoyed, but I was riled up at the moment.
I thought that was pretty cute 😉
Can’t you just go up to a woman and ask her to wallop you with something already?
If you just want to have sex, do Adult Friend Finder or hire a prostitute.
Well, what ever you do, I enjoyed the post.
Axe, this is your problem. You have too many expectations. You can’t look at any event as specifically about having sex or not.
I don’t go to D.O. to have sex. I go to D.O. to network, meet people, and have fun. At camp, I didn’t have penis in vagina sex until Sunday night, but I had an awesome time. I may or may not have sex at Winter Fire, but I’m still going, because I’m going to have fun. I can learn new skills in classes, I can meet new people and hang out with out people and make friends.
A for play, ITS NOT THAT HARD. All you need to do is RELAX, be normal, meet people, and just fucking ask.
I think you need to lower your standards, why are they so high? Ask yourself, are you someone who commands high standards?
Sexcapades are not the end results of the BDSM intentions. If you get sex, good for you, but don’t go to these events expecting this to be the outcome. I thought you knew better!
the ladies above are telling you to lower your standards, but are they so high? maybe they are, but lowering standards are for losers. lol
can’t you go with “the someone” you were iming with in this post?