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Sugasm #118

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #119? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
An Erotic Story…Samson and Delilah
“Now how exactly does one go about seducing a preacher?”

A Kiss
“Then, the lulling low roar of your voice falls away and we are both leaning forward, transfixed.”

Clif & Lydia Drop Over The Edge
“She nervously giggled and lowered her lashes. ”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
The Secret of Playboy Legs

Editor’s Choice
The Carnival of Feminists 53: Call for submissions

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday andFriday.

BDSM & Fetish
Art Show Maintenance Spanking part 2
Being of good use
Blow Me
Catalina loves (Unusual) Fetishes
Handball As A Contact Sport
Mz Berlin And Wired Pussy In Conspiracy Bigger Than Da Vinci Code (Bondage, Shibari, Violet Wand)
Naughty Request
Personal Growth Through BDSM
Pumped Up
Professional Submissive
Saturday night…
Thirty-Eight Caliber Nipples

Sex Work
Catalina loves Work (Part II)
Sex Worker Confessions: Vixen
Sex Worker Solidarity: Libertine

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
How to give good head
The power of penetration
What IS Love??

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
MC Nudes: Alice, Marta, Princessa & Vivian
Half-Nekkid Thursday: Icing Up the Nipples
Kyla Cole & Tara Radovic
Mz. Berlin Looks Stunning In This Waist Cincher Corset And Boots
Performance
Pic of the week (which one taste better?!)
Pornsaint Ashley Fires
Public Train Porn
Sandra Shine dolled up and nude
Sunny Leone is a masterpiece come to life

Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
Kinky Movie: Teacher’s Pet (Adult VOD, Bondage, Femdom, Mz. Berlin, Anastasia Pierce)
The Nawty (un)Valentine’s Chat!
Raunchy Review: Liquid Latex
Scary Contest?
Top 7 Political Hottie Endorsements
What’s the Greatest Sex Scene of All Time?

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Amusing Myself
A blowjob story with John Holmes
Butt Seriously
Coming like a train
Drive Me Hard
The Duvet
Exhaustion
Hannah and the Girl’s Night Out
Hooking Up On Craigslist is Like Playing the Lottery
Now that was a mouthful!
Phantom Touch
Showing off
Silence
Tango
You made my brain come a Friday night bedtime story

How To Find New York’s Sexy Underbelly

Forgive me, there’s no point to this post, just thinking.

I read websites like Debauchette, Sexegesis, A Bad Man, Jefferson, Dominatrix Next Door, and countless others based in New York.

I wonder how it’s possible that I live in the same city they do.

Sex parties? Are you shitting me? Really? In the same time-zone as me?

Reading these blogs it seems that finding wild crazy sex just falls into the laps (literally) of some people in the city.

It’s not just the bloggers of course. I have a number of friends who would probably blog but they don’t have time to since they’re too busy having wild amazing sex.

Maybe the problem is that I’m trying too hard?

Many continue to try craigslist. I’ve gone to newyork.craigslist.org but maybe I need to try seriously.this.is.the.real.craigslist.that. everyone.has.success.with.newyork.craigslist.org

Nope. Nothing there.

It’s not jealousy really, it’s more “hey guys can I come too?”

Ok wait. I have been to one sex party.

That’s a story for later in the week though.

How About A Happy Post?

I’ve realized that this li’l blog of mine can really seem like a depressing read. While the main focus of it is a way for me to internalize my feelings and express them, I also realize that a few of you actually read it (hell you know I didn’t order you to) and I don’t want you to get the wrong idea about me.

I do want you do know that, for the most part, I’m really a happy guy. It’s only when I’m writing about this one topic that I do tend to focus too much on the hardships and not focus enough on the good stuff.

Hmmm If only there were a way for one of you to spank me over the internet when I’m getting too maudlin.

A few good things (and yes, I’m sober as I write this):

-My circle of friends continues to grow unexpectedly from this blog. I’m meeting some new friends this week and a few next week as well.

-I’ll soon have a roommate and will be saving tons of cash.

-I’m attending a lifestyle event this week and one next week as well.

-I’m planning a european trip this spring/summer where I’ll be attending kinky events in multiple countries.

-I’m now on Facebook! Add me if you’re on and maybe you can kick my ass at scrabble.

-Thanks to Maymay, I’m now enjoying the many benefits of TED.

-I’m seeing HER, again tomorrow night!

I could go on and on but you get the idea.

So please keep in mind that, while I may get a bit down when expressing my frustrations as a submissive male, I do have a lot going for me and I am luckier than most.

Cheers!

Sugasm #113

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #114? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
A Different Kind Of Authority For Sex Bloggers
“As we sex workers, sex bloggers, and adult business folks swim in our ponds or spin in our micro universes & connect with others, we continue to build authority.”

Of sex and strippers
“At one point she was straddling Girlfriend’s right leg, grinding her thigh against Girlfriend’s clit through her jeans.”

Wink Wink, Nudge Nudge
Her comments were something to the effect of, “No one wanted to see me twirl with tassels ~ on fire or not ~ when some girl was going to sit on stage and insert things into herself.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Kofola

Editor’s Choice
Interview with Paul Festa about circumcision

Erotic Writing and Experiences

Aurel Sex. – The Husband
Cock Whore
Decibels
Dreams are funny things
The Erotic Review
I Love A Rainy Night
The night I was initiated on Frat Row
Opera Glasses
Score
Skin, breath, desire, rhythm
Uninvited
Yesterday’s Sweet Blowjob

Sex Work
Catalina loves Giving Spankings

NSFW Pics & Videos
Mizuki Horii
Andie Valentino (Twistys)
Half-Nekkid Thursday: View from MY Back Row
Mindy Main Sexy and Topless
A Very Shibari New Year From Marky D. Sade

Sex Advice
13 Ways To Use What You Have To Build Intimacy
Celebrate 2008: The Year of the Pussy!
Just Seeing My Girlfriend Turns Me On! Is This Normal?!
Resolve to Improve Your Sex Life in 2008

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
2007 Wanking Totals
Discovering the Art of Masturbation
Hair-B-Gone
I fucked this guy once …without dirty talk!?!
Taking One For the Team

Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
The Hello Kitty Vibrator – Battery-Powered Evil!!!
Panties Second Only To Auto Industry
Real Doll Rentals
Working Sex: Sex Workers Write About a Changing Industry

BDSM & Fetish
All Tied Up and No Where To Go
Am I A Masochist?
Daddy Play
The Descent Begins
More piss slut practice
Rough Fuck
A Seven Orgasm Day
Two-thirds
Who knew Uncle Sam was kinky?

Sugasm #112 Happy New Year!

This Week’s Picks
If She Were Here
“I licked him behind his ear the way I know it drives him crazy.”

Quickie
“Their eyes locked for a full minute, with neither moving, nor speaking, and the lust flowing between almost tangible in its intensity.”

The Devastator
“She walked over to me, and pressed her warm mouth against mine.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Orgasmic Childbirth

Editor’s Choice
Cause and Effect

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Defining NSA
New Girlfriend
Sleeping Naked III

Sex News & Reviews
The Business Side of Escorting II – JD Roberts
Happy Birthday, Baby Jesus. Lesbian Femdom With Audrey Hollander. (Bondage, Anal Fisting, Forced Orgasms)
Ring in the New Year with Jingle Jugs!
Taxing texas strip clubs

BDSM & Fetish
Body Betrayal, Part 1
Discovering The Secret to My Ejaculation
Half-Nekkid in a Black Corset
Planned Rape
Pose

Sex Advice
10 Steps to Great First-Time Anal Sex
Catalina says Give Great Head!

NSFW Pics & Videos
Pornsaint Charlotte Stokely
Sandy A
Tara Radovic, Celeste, Justine and Kyla Cole by Andrew Blake
Thirteen Images Of Women In Spectacular Lingerie In Film

Sex Work
Catalina loves Work
Embarrassing Moments on the Job
Reality Check: Working On Christmas

Erotic Writing and Experiences
The best ever evening, ever
The best laid plans.
Fourth Base
On Santa’s Lap
The Star of David
Steam

Wake Me Up (part 1)