Sugasm #112 Happy New Year!

This Week’s Picks
If She Were Here
“I licked him behind his ear the way I know it drives him crazy.”

“Their eyes locked for a full minute, with neither moving, nor speaking, and the lust flowing between almost tangible in its intensity.”

The Devastator
“She walked over to me, and pressed her warm mouth against mine.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Orgasmic Childbirth

Editor’s Choice
Cause and Effect

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Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Defining NSA
New Girlfriend
Sleeping Naked III

Sex News & Reviews
The Business Side of Escorting II – JD Roberts
Happy Birthday, Baby Jesus. Lesbian Femdom With Audrey Hollander. (Bondage, Anal Fisting, Forced Orgasms)
Ring in the New Year with Jingle Jugs!
Taxing texas strip clubs

BDSM & Fetish
Body Betrayal, Part 1
Discovering The Secret to My Ejaculation
Half-Nekkid in a Black Corset
Planned Rape

Sex Advice
10 Steps to Great First-Time Anal Sex
Catalina says Give Great Head!

NSFW Pics & Videos
Pornsaint Charlotte Stokely
Sandy A
Tara Radovic, Celeste, Justine and Kyla Cole by Andrew Blake
Thirteen Images Of Women In Spectacular Lingerie In Film

Sex Work
Catalina loves Work
Embarrassing Moments on the Job
Reality Check: Working On Christmas

Erotic Writing and Experiences
The best ever evening, ever
The best laid plans.
Fourth Base
On Santa’s Lap
The Star of David

Wake Me Up (part 1)


do you think there is a difference in male vs. female submission? do you think that submissive males are more likely to be service-oriented? it seems like male dominants don’t have “house girls” the way female dominants have slaves to do their errands and so forth. all the sub blogs i read from women are more about sex, whereas the ones by men seem to be more about making the woman happy on all counts, pleasing her out of the bedroom as well. thoughts?

That’s a great question. I’ve started to write something about that subject. Though I find service-oriented submissives to be fairly rare as well. I’ve only recently met another and it made for some great stories.

I don’t know. I think that, to an extent, it might be that due to societal roles, some level of service is expected from women in heterosexual relationships and therefore not worth commenting on. As a friend of mine likes to say “It’s amazing how M/f D/s looks like an old fashioned marriage.”

(Also, you’re missing a space between May and Be in your Please Note: :). I only mention it because it’s permanent text )