Porn For Women on the latest Masocast

sophieSophie Delancey sat down with me on the latest episode of the podcast.  In it we talk about her role as a porn creator and VP of  a couple of porn sites including The Art Of Blowjob and The Art Of Cunnilingus.  We talk porn for women, the kink scene in Toronto, her experiences in the scene, sex parties, porn for women a a whole lot more.  You can find her on twitter here.

A New Podcast is Up with Mistress Alex Probing Riley Reynolds

I posted another Masocast this last weekend with Mistress Alex and Riley Reynolds, where we talk about Riley’s porn career, how she went from being a kinky college student to a striper to acting in porn. Alex probes Riley to talk about probing butts, how sex doesn’t require penetration, how to enjoy being frustrated in a porn scene and a load more.

Listen here, subscribe on iTunes or on Soundcloud or

Please forgive the intro, it’s just a few minutes that amounts to the most “bummer” pre-porn interview you’ve ever heard.

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Support the Masocast with Bitcoin

One of the most common things people have requested for the podcast is the ability to donate via Bitcoin.

“I’d love to support the podcast but I don’t want a paper trail with my name associated with The Masocast.”

Well now you can kiss those excuses goodbye thanks to the method of payment used by everyone from drug cartels to..well drug cartels.

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Calling All Pervs

I have a pretty standard way I manage interviews for the Masocast. Every three months I do a big block of interviews usually enough to cover the next three months. I make a few exceptions if a guest is only available outside my interview block or something else comes up like if a guest is only in town for a few days.
I mention it because I’ll be doing another block of interviews in December and I’m looking for interesting guests. I have a few lined up already but if I can squeeze a few more in it will help me hit the ground running in 2014.

Even after over 120 interviews there are tons of areas I haven’t covered on the podcast. I’m reminded of this when someone sends me an interview suggestion and I end up face-palming wondering why I didn’t think of that.

Some of the most common interviews people request:

Porn Stars
Cross dressers
More LBGT guests
Triads (I assume they mean three people in a relationship and not the Chinese organized crime syndicate).

I’ve had some variations of the most requested types on the show but people are always interested in hearing more.  Though I’ve never had a pornstar on the show. I’ve interviewed one but I’m guessing she was uncomfortable with it going live so it sits on the shelf for now.

Another I’ll add to the list is a religious person. I’ve been a bit pushy with my atheism on the show lately and I’d love to get a devout fill-in-the-blank kinky person on the show get their perspective.

Booking guests on the show can be a bit tricky when it’s someone I don’t know personally. Whenever someone requests a woman on the show and I don’t know her it can be a little awkward if they’ve never heard of the Masocast. I used to send a polite and professional email giving the potential guest a background on the show and a general idea of what we’d talk about but I think it came across more like “Hey lady, wanna come over to my place and talk about sex?” Now that I can point to Sade and say “Look! See? I have no interesting in boning you because she and I are together…we cool”? Still it comes across as awkward.

So that brings me to the point of this post. I’m always looking for more interesting people to talk to and topics to focus on so I welcome interviewees and your guest and topic ideas [email protected]

128 Episodes And I’m Still Learning

iris1I still can’t get over the fact that I’ve done 128 episodes of The Masocast and I’m still finding areas of BDSM I’ve never imagined.

For example this latest episode I talk with irisenchanted (name lowercase by her request) and she talks about “lifting and carrying” a kink that revolves around..well..lifting and carrying people. Just carrying. Not lifting and fucking. Just lifting.

Another she mentions is the kink of bubblegum bubbles. People getting off on watching women with bubblegum, and there’s nuance to those as well. Does the bubble pop? Is it clean or messy?  Fascinating.

Sometimes I’m jealous of people who have such a specific kink that gets them off. I’ve heard foot fetishists describe such detailed nuance of arches and little-toe to big-toe ratios that I sometimes wonder if knowing such detail of what turns you on makes it much easier to get your rocks off or that much harder since your tastes are so specific.

I never thought I had a fetish specifically other than submission and bondage in general but Sade has recently come up with a theory.

More on that later.