Long Time, No Post

It’s been ages since I posted, I know. But I have a good excuse.


That’s pretty much it. I work the equivalent of two full-time jobs. A day-job and I freelance every night and all weekend. It leaves little time for much else. In fact I’m taking a break from working to write this post. I’ve had a number of concerned emails from people worrying about why I’ve been MIA so I figured I’d take a break from work to fill in the blanks.

Sade has been pretty much in the same situation. Between work and school there’s little time for socializing. There are some of our close friends who we used to see every week who we haven’t seen in months.

2015 was supposed to be the year my back got better post-surgery yet that didn’t work out. I continue to go to the doctor for pain mediation and decide what my next step should be surgery-wise but it’ll be a while before I can save up enough for the surgery.

I’ve had to cut back on the podcast as well. Where I used to put out an episode every other week I’m now forced to release one every other month at best. So instead of 24 episodes per year It’ll be 6 in 2016 if I’m lucky.

This is not due to a lack of interest in the podcast nor has it been due to the lack of great people to interview, I have a number of interviews in the vault just waiting to be released but no time to edit them.

I wish I could say I’ll be able to get back to a “normal” life sometime soon, back to socializing, play-parties, quality time with Sade and friends but that doesn’t seem like it’ll happen any time soon. I don’t work this much because I want to, I do it because I have no other choice. As long as the medical bills keep piling up I’ll need to pay for them.

I am grateful that I’m able to have two full-time jobs. I have friends who have trouble finding work at all so having too much work is much better than too little.

So that’s, that. Who knows I may win the lottery or I’ll get some sweet gig that would change all of this but in the meantime if you’re wondering why I haven’t posted, it’s because I’m working.

Porn For Women on the latest Masocast

sophieSophie Delancey sat down with me on the latest episode of the podcast.  In it we talk about her role as a porn creator and VP of  a couple of porn sites including The Art Of Blowjob and The Art Of Cunnilingus.  We talk porn for women, the kink scene in Toronto, her experiences in the scene, sex parties, porn for women a a whole lot more.  You can find her on twitter here.

Sci-fi, Trans issues, Therapy In the Lifestyle and more with Morgana Maye on the Masocast

morgana1-300x210On the latest podcast I sat down with Morgana Maye again to talk about the kinkier areas and early influences of Sci-Fi, Transparent and the reaction of some in the Trans community, her new site Love Your Kink and a lot more.



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A New Podcast is Up with Mistress Alex Probing Riley Reynolds

I posted another Masocast this last weekend with Mistress Alex and Riley Reynolds, where we talk about Riley’s porn career, how she went from being a kinky college student to a striper to acting in porn. Alex probes Riley to talk about probing butts, how sex doesn’t require penetration, how to enjoy being frustrated in a porn scene and a load more.

Listen here, subscribe on iTunes or on Soundcloud or

Please forgive the intro, it’s just a few minutes that amounts to the most “bummer” pre-porn interview you’ve ever heard.

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Random Kinky Stuff

-Sade and I went to the first play party we’ve been to in a while and it was such a great time.  Met some really great people, made some new friends and found some new guests for the podcast. Oh and I’ll be doing another big round of episodes again soon so if you’re game to go on via skype or in person (if you’re going to be or are in NYC that is), drop me an email.

TinaHorn2-Speaking of the podcast, a new episode with Tina Horn is now live, while you’re at it check out her podcast Why Are People Into That. It’s funny, smart and if you’ve ever wondered about the nuances of a kink you’re not into…or are into..this is a good one. Plus she’s funny as hell so that’s a big bonus.

-On another not-so-kinky podcast, 99percentinvisible, they covered the history of high heeled shoes in the episode Feet of Engineering.

-Lastly, if you’re not reading Dumb Domme you’re missing out on some of the most honest, heartbreaking, funny and..well fuck it’s some of the best writing on kink…no on relationships and life that I’ve ever read.