Someone made a comment in my most recent post that has me perplexed. I’m not sure I know what she or he is saying here. I know what the words mean (even fancy words like “effacement”) but I’m not quite sure how to take it.
I’m not disagreeing with the comment. Just that I may not be smart enough to know what it means.
Please note: I’m not asking for readers to come to my defense. I’m just interested in getting more details. I think the person was trying to leave some constructive advice. Not that it was meant as an insult. The comment was anonymous but that doesn’t mean anything less in my book.
“This is a sweet post, but I do find your complete effacement of self _very_ disturbing. There is a huge difference between being a sexually submissive man, and not owning the right to your own pleasure or presence in the world—and you often read like the latter.
Good luck with it however—Im sure it aint easy.“
Is the person trying to say that I need to go out and just find what I need?
Feel free to comment as anonymous:) Go ahead. I promise I can take it!