A friend emailed me this post this week.
Great isn’t it? (sarcasm)
So ladies, here’s why you should not want dominate men.
“The problem with dudes who are into domination is that they almost always seem to be as fat and cowardly and emotionally-childlike and generally pathetic as they want you to treat them. And the problem with dominatrixes is that they all sound like they’re wayyyyy into video games”
Is that why women are grossed out by my desire to submit and to please? They think I want to be treated as though I’m pathetic?
I don’t get that. Why is that the stereotype?
Let’s get a few things out of the way, at least about me.
I’m 6’2″, 180lbs, yes I could go to the gym more but that’s because I could use more muscle, if anything I’m too skinny. Secondly, the last thing I want is to be treated as though I’m pathetic. I’m sure there are some guys that get off on that, but not this guy.
Emotionally childlike? I wouldn’t know how to gauge that in myself.
Cowardly? Depends on what you mean. Yeah, I have a tremendous fear of rejection and being abandoned. Is that cowardly? Possibly.
The last thing I want is to be treated as though I’m pathetic. Treated as a personal sex toy? Yes. Treated as a “worm”? No.
That last part about dominant women though, I don’t get it.
Then again, the last woman that beat me was humming the theme to Super Mario Bros.