Yeah…I don’t know either.
I do know more Domme/Dom couples than Domme/sub couples. It’s something that I do occasionally feel frustrated by.
Why is that? Is there really such a low number of quality submissive men that many Dommes would rather have the exact opposite of what they prefer sexually?
My frustration comes from the fact that this is the one thing I should be able to do better than an Alpha male-dom type and yet they still win. It’s like knowing that the jock in high-school won the Nobel prize in physics just after he won the lottery.
Maybe there’s an x-factor that I’m not taking into consideration. It could be that the need to have someone to relate to is a higher priority for most Dommes, they may enjoy playing with a submissive but they prefer to have someone on their level when it comes to a long-term relationship.
I’ve never actually asked any of the Domme/Dom couples why they think that’s the case. It may be that when it all comes down to it, you can’t choose who you fall in love with. It just happens.
Then again, it could be the fact that I doubt any dominant men write posts on their blog pouting about how the Alpha male got the girl yet again.