You’re supposed to read that headline as though you were Jerry Seinfeld.
Humiliation. I have no experience in it, other than examples like this.
There have been many things in my exploration that I never thought I’d consider hot but later found otherwise. Feet for example. I’ve never had a foot fetish until recently, though it is conditional. The same for strap-on play. It started out as “no way” now it’s “yes please”.
Being humiliated is still something I can’t get my head around. I suppose it depends on what you mean by humiliation. Being called a slut by a woman fucking me is hotter than hell. Being called a worthless worm is not. As far as I know anyway.
There is one time I do remember someone trying to humiliate me and it didn’t work out so well. It totally ruined the mood for me.
The woman I was playing was trying to humiliate me by making fun of the size of my manhood.
It’s not what she said that ruined it for me, it was because I didn’t believe her. This was the same woman who wouldn’t shut up about how much she loved that part of my body and how she couldn’t get enough of it just hours beforehand. Now she was telling me the opposite. Maybe she wasn’t sincere in complimenting me in the first place or maybe my ego prevented me from believing her. Maybe if I had believed her it would have been more erotic.
It’s not that I’m curious specifically about humiliation, it’s that I’m curious about all aspects of my exploration. Some emotional sides of being submissive are harder to fathom than the physical.
I’ve never experienced CBT yet I know it would be hot….ok I’m pretty sure it would be. Yet when it comes to humiliation I can’t figure it out or even imagine I would enjoy it.
Yeah there was no real point to this post…just rambling.