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Making My Whole Body Shake

· May 4, 2010 · Thoughts · , , , , , , , , , · 6 Comments

She put the leather goggle blindfold over my eyes, told me to strip, kneel and wait for her in the living room.

I waited there, I heard her doing something in the bedroom but I wasn’t quite sure what.

I started to worry.

We’ve had a friend staying with us for the last couple of months. What if she came home early, opened the door and was greeted by the sight of me kneeling naked and blindfolded right in front of the door?

My knees pressed into the cold wooden floor. The next thing I knew I felt her skin against my lips. I didn’t know what part of her I was kissing. It didn’t last long though, soon I felt her hands wrap around my balls and lift me to a standing position. She didn’t need to say anything, she lead me by the balls to the bedroom where we kissed.

Before I knew it I was bound to the bed and my legs and ass were up in the air and she was entering me.

I still can’t wrap my head around anal orgasms. When it happens, my mind feels so confused at where it’s coming from, it feels so overwhelming but finally my mind goes blank and it, as does my body, surrenders to her, this long slow wave moves over me, my body tightens, my back arches and I come.

Again and again she forced orgasms out of me. I lose count. 6? 7?

Each time she moans with me, whispers dirty things that just turns me on even more.

She moves off the bed and changes cocks, this one is much bigger. If I wasn’t in a deep post multi-orgasmic subspace I’d have asked her to please go slow at first but I can’t say anything, I just lay there with my legs still up in the air and moan with every exhale.

She positions herself over me, I can tell by the look on her face that she is more than turned on. She’s in another world like I am.  But she’s the opposite of I am, I’m getting fucked, mouth open and moaning, she’s got a wicked-hot smile on her face, talking dirty, fucking and owning me.

The night was just getting started.

The next morning I was in the shower, I could barely step in, my legs were still shaking.

All this week I’ve been constantly turned on, counting the seconds until I’m home from work and I’ll be able to see her, and kiss her again.

 

 

 

Expand Your Kink With Rope Share April 24th!

· April 13, 2010 · Events · , , , · No Comments

Yep another Rope Share is on the way!

If you have any interest in rope and live in the NYC area I cannot recommend the Rope Share enough.

It’s a great learning environment, hands on instruction, very relaxed and you can’t go wrong with my friends V (who you may have heard on The Masocast) and Delano (who I’m still bugging to let me interview him) sharing their big rope brains.

Here’s the skinny (and you can bookmark the Rope Share page here so you’re always up to date):

Novice Rope Share
Men, Women, Trans, Welcome!
In this workshop we will go over the fundamentals of rope. We will teach basic ties, rope aesthetics, and rope safety.
Participants must be over 18yr.
Date/time: Saturday, April 24th at 1pm.
Location: Greenwich St.

(btwn Rector and Carlisle; three blocks south of the WTC site)
Specific building number will be emailed upon registration.

$25- per person

Instructor: DeLano

Assistant instructor: V

The Rope Share is a bondage workshop that is structured to fit your skill levels and interests. There is one highly skilled rope instructor and one teaching assistant. The attendance will be limited to 12 students.

This month’s Rope Share workshop is a concentrated class for the beginner/novice. The instructor will teach you the basics of safety, negotiations and the elemental ties needed to start your bondage exploration.

This is a lab-environment setting and we will practice on one another. Please be open to both tie and be tied for the sake of education. Please wear comfortable clothing as there is no nudity during the class.

Bring Rope: 4 lengths of 25ft. rope; 2 lengths of 50ft.; and safety scissors. Cotton, nylon, hemp, and jute are all fine.

To sign up, send an email to [email protected] Title the subject line as “Novice Rope Share Sign Up” and
include the following information in your email:

1. Your name (Scene name or legal)

2. Contact number and email address

3. Rope bondage experience and skill level ( Please be brief)

4. What you are interested in learning

5. How you heard about this workshop

Sign up now as places are expected to fill quickly! Beginners to advanced rope players are all welcome!! If you have never tried rope before, but are curious, this is a safe space to share and learn rope bondage.

DeLano is dedicated to using his years of experience in the bondage scene to help others enjoy their time in rope more safely and fully. He has presented locally in NYC and for events around the country on rope bondage and on other topics. DeLano is the Junior Instructor for Midori’s Rope Bondage Dojo ® weekend intensives, and he co-moderates the Japanese RopeArt and the Shibari Enthusiasts Yahoo groups. He’s also co-presented with Michele Serchuk on their photographic collaborations in bondage imagery.

DeLano has had a life-long desire for rope bondage and explores that through his Web site,www.delanobound.com. This is his personal exploration of the art, spirituality, physicality and psychology of his bondage journey as well as the nature of the connections he shares with his rope partners (both as a bottom and as a top).

Another Rope Share, All The Cool Kids Will Be There

· February 28, 2010 · Events · , , · No Comments

Another Rope Share is in the works for next weekend. Not only will you learn in a small, hands-on environment from a number of rope experts, but you’ll be learning from two people who have been featured on the Masocast! (Don’t hold that against them), Lolita Wolf and V!

Plus I’ll be there too but again, don’t let that deter you from taking advantage of this opportunity.

Details below:

Novice Rope Share

Men, Women, Trans, Welcome!
In this workshop we will go over the fundamentals of rope. We will teach basic ties, rope aesthetics, and rope safety.
Participants must be over 18yr.
Date/time: Saturday, March 6th at 1pm.
Location: Greenwich St.

(btwn Rector and Carlisle; three blocks south of the WTC site)
Specific building number will be emailed upon registration.

$25- per person

Instructor: Lolita Wolf

Assistant instructor: V

The Rope Share is a bondage workshop that is structured to fit your skill levels and interests. There is one highly skilledrope instructor and one teaching assistant. The attendance will be limited to 12 students.

This month’s Rope Share workshop is a concentrated class for the beginner/novice. The instructor will teach you the basics of safety, negotiations and the elemental ties needed to start your bondage exploration.

This is a lab-environment setting and we will practice on one another. Please be open to both tie and be tied for the sake of education. Please wear comfortable clothing as there is no nudity during the class.

Bring Rope: 4 lengths of 25ft. rope; 2 lengths of 50ft.; and safety scissors. Cotton, nylon, hemp, and jute are all fine.

To sign up, send an email to [email protected] Title the subject line as “Novice Rope Share Sign Up” and
include the following information in your email:

1. Your name (Scene name or legal)

2. Contact number and email address

3. Rope bondage experience and skill level ( Please be brief)

4. What you are interested in learning

5. How you heard about this workshop

Sign up now as places are expected to fill quickly! Beginners to advanced rope players are all welcome!! If you have never tried rope before, but are curious, this is a safe space to share and learn rope bondage.

Lolita Wolf discovered the BDSM scene back in the late 80’s when “online” meant being on the phone sex lines. She is an activist who defends the sexual freedom for all consenting adults, spreads the word about BDSM, sex and poly, and helps the community grow and flourish. Yet, her goal remains “to have fun.” Lolita has learned skills Midori’s Rope Dojo and many other instructors at Shibaricon and many other events. Lolita has taught workshops for organizations and events across the country. She is well-known for a fun and entertaining style. She is co-facilitator of the TES BondageGroup. Lolita is an Emeritus Board Member of of both TES and Leather Leadership Conference. She is a former Chair of Lesbian Sex Mafia, an honorary member of GMSMA and an Associate Member of New York boys of Leather. She is active with National Coalition for Sexual Freedom and Leather Pride Night. Her writing has appeared in On Our backs and Prometheus magazines and she has authored two books: Spanking and CBT in a Nutshell. Her website can be found at http://leatheryenta.com/

My First Suspension

· July 28, 2009 · Links · , , · 7 Comments

Being suspended has always been a daydream of mine. A fantasy that I’ve played over and over in my head. Either hanging from the rafters and getting fucked or beaten or teased or….well…anything. Suspension always seemed to add a layer of vulnerability.

Well, I finally got to try it.

I was at a Suspension party here in New York (fitting of course) with a few friends and out of the blue, Troy Orleans walks up to me and says “Hey, I was going to suspend someone but I can’t find him. Would you mind?”

Would I???

I’m sure she could see how excited I was by the idea and before long she was running rope under, over and around my body. I have been around a lot of people getting suspended and I always thought it took much longer for most people to the hoisted up.

It was much more comfortable than I thought it would be. The rope was cushioned by my leather pants and T-shirt. I’m not sure if the rope would have felt as though it was digging into my skin without it or not but I was really enjoying myself.

I wasn’t sure if Troy was sick of hearing me talk or if she just knew I like to have something in my mouth but a few seconds later she had a ballgag in place as I swayed there. I’d email her about it later and she said, “I brought that ball gag expressly for you in case we had the opportunity to play there. It wasn’t to get you to shut up, it was for your oral habit…

There I was, finally suspended. Swaying back and forth around a hundred or so people. It was peaceful. It felt similar to yoga as I drifted into a similar state of mind.

I’m not sure how long I was up there, it felt like 5 maybe 10 minutes but it was more like three times that. Eventually she let me down, I gave her a big hug with a silly grin on my face and two friends who were watching gave me big smiles as well.

To Troy and the guy she couldn’t find: Thank you

Rope Dummy

· April 23, 2009 · Thoughts · , · 5 Comments

My best friend ties me up as her test dummy.

I have another friend who will use me in this way as well. I’m someone to practice on before a big date or just to hone their skills.

My best friend, BondageFreaky does it more often. She’ll usually walk up to me while she’s got a look on her face as though she’s deep in thought. I know she’s got a new bondage position in mind. Something she hasn’t tried before or something she wants to perfect.

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It’s brings us closer together as friends. She gets practice in rope and I get to give her feedback on what feels better or what hurts more. If there’s one area of my body losing circulation or another in a position that can’t be held for long durations.

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Sometimes I get into the zone, similar to how I feel at the end of a long yoga session. If the position is taxing I’ll find myself collapsing onto the couch or in a big chair while she has a smile on her face knowing she tested me.

It’s nice to experience rope for the sake of rope. It’s nice to be experimented on and also see how much fun she’s having as the rope goes flying. I like being able to offer suggestions on improving a position, knowing that when she ties up a submissive later, they’ll both have more fun because of my feedback.

She comes up with some of the most unique and evil positions I’ve ever seen. I’m trying to convince her to start photographing them more often.

How she sometimes improvises something that turns out to be both constrictive and visually appealing always a surprises to me.

I’m a pretty lucky guy, being able to get my rope fix while helping a friend at the same time.

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