Found Femdom: Mini Cooper

Ho…ly…Shit

When someone (please let me know if I can use your first name when submitting Found Femdom posts, I like to give credit) emailed me this link I had no idea I’d spend so much time checking out the features of a car. It’s Mini Canada’s Dominate Winter campaign.

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Go ahead, click around the site. They come right out and say it. I’m wondering if they’re trying to appeal to submissive men or dominant women with this campaign.

When you click around the site you can choose the angle you want to see the car (assume the position) and click on various features of the Mini as the voiceover talks about kink just as much as the car itself. A few lines:

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“A heated windshield helps avoid lots of scraping..unless of course you enjoy lots of scraping.”

“…and avoid whiplash, but not the good kind of whiplash”

“…think of it as, consensual cornering.”

“…and who doesn’t like rubber and friction”.

“..heated seats… please insert your own double entendre

“Sadly, it takes the kink out of icy roads.”

Meanwhile she walks around the car spanking it, flogging it and playing with the antenna as seductively as one can. To hell with puppy or pony play, I wanna be a mini cooper (no small penis jokes please).

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Do you think campaigns like this help or hurt the BDSM lifestyle? On one hand it shows that being a dominant woman isn’t something to be ashamed of, quite the opposite. Would you rather have a busty cheerleader showing off the car or a woman who appears to be confident and knows what she wants?

Thoughts?

Sugasm #134

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #135? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
Tantra is work and a two way street
“Tantra is hard work and is not all light and orgasmic play.”

Nyotaimori
“She smiles wantonly, but says nothing.”

Submit
“But when you’re really attracted to someone, and part of that attraction is to their dominance, it almost gives you a second wind for pain.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
Discussing a lifestyle event with strangers

More Sugasm
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See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

(Sugasm participants should re-post all the links above within a week. The following links may be excluded as long as you include all the above links.)

BDSM & Fetish
53 Days
‘Braking’ His Bottom – F/m Spanking Pictures
Careful, You May End Up In My Novel
Cerebral Trainee Subject: Susan Part 2
Dinner at La Domaine – Reality
Dreaming of the Queen
The intricate natures of men and women.
More than a little bratty
Mrs.Kink’s Strap-On Fantasy
r’s naughty thoughts on squirting
Sadistic Moments
Spanking Sex
Venus 2000 / Milking Machine
Vignette of a Real Life Session

Sex Advice
Ask Miss Bliss-My Girlfriend’s Unhappy Without A Female
The Clitoris: A Users guide for submissive men
Faking? Who are you kidding him or yourself?
How To Pick A Dildo
Sex Dream Analysis: The Panty-less Cowgirl
Starting Your Own Sex(y) Blog
What Kind of Sex Do You Like?

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Anticipation
Carpet burns on her knees
The Chocolate Lovers Part 1
First gay, forever gay
Hero Undone
Insatiable.
Senses
What he remembers…

Sex Work
Sex Workers In The Myths

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Asian MILF gives perfect lickie suckie dickie
Catalina Loves Freckle and Cuff HNT
The Corset That Started It All
Fetish Model Anna Rose In The Perfect Ballet Heel Fetish Picture
I can’t decide
Intimate Moments with Annette Schwarz
Nasty webcam babe bucking like a porn queen
Sexy Little Thing -HNT
Sunny Leone: Showing Off Her Nice Body and Boobs
Victoria Valmer is simply too good to be true
Video: Fresh Out of the Shower

Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
Ava Rose is Carolina Jones
Bondage Threesome With Sara Faye, Amber Rayne, And Device Bondage

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
How to masturbate, v4.0
I am a masturbator
Reading Sex
Sex as sport, part 1
She’s On Top
Skin — Part I

Paraphrasing

She had two (possibly three) personal submissive males at her beck and call. Now she was looking for financially well-endowed men only.

I didn’t fit the bill.

“Only if by “financial” you men I can afford to buy you an occasional beer”.

She didn’t think it was funny but we kept talking anyway. I don’t know why I kept talking to her knowing there was no chance in hell, but I did.

She said submissive guys like me were a dime a dozen. She keeps a few personals for her enjoyment and collects financial slaves on the side. All of them were easily replaced.

I don’t know what she meant by submissive men like me. Tall? Ok, no, she didn’t mean that.

I told her I often write about the subject and asked if I could quote her. She said no.

So…I’m paraphrasing.

Table For Seven Please

I’ve got six of my close friends from back home coming to visit for the weekend.

Three married couples.

The seven of us used to spend a lot of time together and this will be the first time in five years we’ve all been in the same place at the same time.

Back in the midwest they were constantly hounding me because I was always single, only having sexual flings. )Now, five years later, nothing has changed.

I almost feel like this would be a good cheesy date movie. You know the kind, where I hire a woman to pose as my girlfriend in front of my friends and she falls for me in the end.

So, we’ll walk all over Manhattan this weekend. They’ve asked me to go to the usual places I hang out but you and I know I can’t really take them where I’d usually hang out.

They’ll meet my new NYC friends, all of my close ones who know about me, the real me. They’ll probably have some questions, why I’m still single and my friends in-the-know will give me a smile and make up some excuse on my behalf.

I love my friends from back home, but the idea of a submissive guy looking for a dominant woman would probably be a bit much for them so I’ll keep it to myself as I always have. A good friend suggested I take them to SMACK on Saturday night and just tell them that it’s what all NYC parties are like. I might, I’ll judge the vibe.

We’ll eat a lot, debate politics (finally I can be a liberal with a home court advantage), drink many beers and laugh until we cry. They women will go to a broadway show and the guys will go have drinks on their behalf. The guys will ask about my sexual conquests and I’ll give them a few stories while leaving out my favorite parts. We’ll have a good time.

It will be great to see them. I’ve missed them. Maybe seeing three happily married vanilla couples will rub some of the vanilla off on me.

Found Femdom: Artsy Stuff

I’ve been slacking on finding any new Found Femdom. I haven’t found any on my own in months. Meanwhile you fine readers have been coming up with everything. Fitting since I feel some of the most compelling stuff on this site are usually the comments.

Most of todays stuff comes from Lickorish, there’s no way I could post everything from this site, but here are a few samples someone sent me.

Any thoughts on a prize I could start giving away? I have no schwag to give but maybe I’ll have some tiny violins made.

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If trampling was my kink, these would be spank material.

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