Shave And A Haircut

The Sweet And Lowdown has a post up about how men should shave their junk.

It’s a question I’ve asked many of my female friends. While a few prefer a guy who looks like Chewbacca, most have said trimmed or shaved. The ones who said they preferred a guy who was trimmed, also seemed ok with a guy who was shaved.

And so, I shave.

There are a few who are repulsed by the idea of a guy without any hair down there.

“Ugh, the last thing I want is a man who looks like a 15 year-old boy” was how one woman put it.

Imagine, literally shaving years off your age.   

When it comes to women (not that you asked), I prefer shaved as well. After all, if all is right with the universe, my mouth will be spending a lot of time in that area and the less hair, the better I can do my job.

New Podcast And Found Femdom

First off a new podcast with my friend Miss Eliza. She talks about how hard it is to find a houseboy, being detained by customs for being kinky, violence, medical play, and lots lots lots more.

I always make the title of the podcast something taken out of context from whomever I’m talking to. This episode is called “Never Saw So Many Assholes In My Life”.

I’m very grateful that I know people who are willing to open themselves up and have a conversation like this recorded. It takes guts to put yourself out there like that. I’m just the guy asking the questions, they’re doing the important stuff.

You can listen on the Masocast website or subscribe in iTunes.   

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On to the Found Femdom!

A reader sent me this along with the note: “I don’ know what’s going on here but I imagine you’d like it.”.

Yup! You imagined correctly!

At first I thought it was a simple matter of a guy cleaning the floor of her bathroom but then I realized he may be helping her find her contact lens.

I’ve never experienced nor have I understood trampling before, but I can see the appeal here.

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Sugasm #166

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #167? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
Bare-Assed Cheek (2): Punishment and Reward
“His finger glides up the inner side of my left thigh.”

Lilly’s Turn – Part 1: Wherein a Power Play is Made
“I asked her, outright, if she considered herself submissive.”

…please…
“Exquisite pain heralding exquisite surrender.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Is Sasha Grey going mainstream?

Sugasm Editor
A Difficult Scenario

Editor’s Choice
Just Looking

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(Sugasm participants should re-post all the links above within a week. The following links may be excluded as long as you include all the above links.)

News, Reviews & Interviews
Horny Goat Weed: The Facts
Top Five Tuesday – Pop Culture Porn
Uniram Manual Sex Machine

Sex Advice
Ask Miss Bliss – She Brings Her Man To The All-Girl Sex Party
Guide to First-Time Anal Sex
How to Make Your Own Fucking Machine

BDSM & Fetish
“Dominant Savant…?”
Microfantasy Monday: Tits
More?
My favorite spanking blogs
Riffing on Brent Scott Riffing on Socrates (was Meeting BS)
Thank you, Jay Wiseman
What’s in the box?

Erotic Writing & Experiences
Burning the Midnight Oil
Camera Shy, Part 4
Couch. Confession #278
Drowning In Lust
Each Exquisite Stroke
Fantasy to Reality
I Like Being a Dirty Bitch
Miss blue that Naughty Little Voyeur
Play
Safe Haven
Sexy Skills
Sissy
Sleep Fucking

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Bianca Beauchamp on a road trip
HNT – Thursday, May 21st, 2009
Hungarian Viva TV presenter is totally nude
Kim Kardashian Playboy Nude Pictures – Few More
Love HNT
Playful Flower
Stunning blonde schoolgirl is punished
“Vixen” -HNT

Sex Humor
A Chocolate Dick Treat
The Secret to Soul Mates

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Blow Jays
Darling, You Look Wonderful Tonight

Have you seen her…?

Marathon Man

This week is the big NYC Fetish Marathon. Event after event after event. I’m planning on making it to at least three or four and thought I’d write about the ones I’m planning on going to to support those who go to all the trouble to make a space for people to meet and have a good time:

First up (and I know it’s late notice) Midori is giving a presentation on the Art of Sensual Feminine Dominance. At first I was thinking “hmmm it would be a great way to meet women who are into that” but that sounded a bit creepy. However, when my best friend wanted to go as well, I figured I now have a non-creepy excuse to go.

It’s Tonight (Tuesday) at the Museum Of Sex, 7:00 sharp.

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Friday night my friend Mistress Didi is putting on a Fetish Stimulus Party. More details here. Didi’s parties were the first I ever went to and thankfully they were so good that I stayed in the scene. She really went out of her way to make me feel comfortable and this party is sure to be another event where you can meet new people in the scene. Plus if you say you saw it on Unspeakableaxe you get free admission! Ok it’s free admission for anyone who goes no matter where they saw it.

Then there’s the twice-per year Smack.

Plus Suspension on Sunday.   

Whew….busy busy week.

If you’re in New York City and are looking for Kink/Fetish things to do. This is you’re week. There are other events going on as well. If you know of some of note that I missed here, feel free to add ’em in the comments.

Oh and if you see me, feel free to say hi.

Doctor Doctor, Gimmie The News…

I’m waiting at the Doc’s office as I write this.

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Just feeling a bit under the weather all week and the past two days I’ve stayed home and done nothing. Despite the fact that I told myself I’d take the extra time to edit more audio for the podcast. Instead I’ve slept, slept, taken lots of showers and baths, and slept some more.

But, since I’m just sitting here waiting, I’m reminded of the first time I imagined anything medical would be sexy:

It was the singing nurse in Ferris Bueller’s Day Off. Remember? “I’m here to restore your pluck, ’cause I’m the nurse who likes to..”

Hey I was 12 or something when I saw it! Cut me some slack!

Lately I’ve learned more and more of my friends have a thing for medical play.   Catheters, enemas, sounds, needles….there’s probably more but I’m groggy.

Most of the things that go along with medical play scare the hell out of me. That’s probably why I’m so curious about it. I might be one of those things where it’s better I don’t know what’s going to happen until its happening. Maybe someone will just strap me down and “surprise” it’s (insert scary thing that I’m eager to try here).

I really have nothing more to say on the subject since I feel like a mental zombie today.   

My body hurts and aches. Even my balls hurt.   

Please make the pain stop so I can be free to go out and let someone bring the pain back again!