There’s a great post over at O Miss Pearl 33 Things Every Submissive Man Should Know,
It’s filled with things I wish someone told me early on in my kink journey. #1 really knocks it out of the park:
1:We are people too, and all the vanilla courtesies still apply. For you as well as me.
There’s a reason this is #1. Just reading it makes me shake my head with memories of shit I did or shit I put up with.
Most excellent point she makes!