Ok, I know I post about service often but I’ve heard something twice in the past week that totally blows my mind. Mixing service with something more sexual.
I was chatting with a friend about it earlier and the subject came up again.
Here’s an excerpt from a recent chat:
axe: i’ve been performing service for years now and have never done anything sexual
Domme: omg someone as cute as you..
Domme1: well my drive is Huuuuge i couldnt imagine it not being sexual
Domme: how boring
axe: but i’ve performed service for women who had strong drives as well but there was nothing sexual
Domme: maybe they arent attracted to you?
Domme: its what makes it fun. I prefer to closely supervise and punish when its not done right..and reward when it is
axe: i enjoy close supervision
axe: but a reward for a good job? usually a reward for me is being allowed to come back and clean again
Domme at least jerking off
Domme: its hot
Domme: i just find it so highly charged
Domme: lol but maybe everything is that way for me
Domme: i guess i want it to be more intense…
Domme: what do you wear?
Domme: ive fantasized about an apron and naked.
axe: usually jeans and a tshirt, my normal clothes
Domme: really i think its super erotic
Domme: its hard work, the guys sweat, its fun to see a hot ass…. cleaning.. 🙂
Domme: it elevates the mundane
I’ve had the image of being objectified in my head for the last few weeks. The whole CFNM thing is a bit of a turn-on.
I imagine my submissive feelings would be stronger if I were naked while doing it…mabye. It’s been my experience that most women don’t want a naked guy cleaning for them, much less a submissive one.
Yet I’ve learned that two of my friends enjoy having submissive men naked while serving them.
Maybe it’s a west coast thing:)
I have no clue how service would be different for me if other aspects of BDSM were mixed in with it.
Would my quality of work get worse because I would be too eager to play? Would it increase because I might feel even more submissive?