“How much pain can you take?”
Such an odd question. A great question though, since it hopefully comes from a person who’s thinking about testing just how much I can take.
How do I answer that?
One person might consider me a pain-slut while another might think of me as a total pussy (to this I always say “you are what you eat”).
I’ve been told I’m a masochist, but it’s not like I have a large sample of opinions on the subject.
I’ve sometimes been tempted to ask what kind of pain since there are many different kinds I have yet to try.
If I’m bound I seem to be able to take more. I think. Maybe it’s just because I like bondage. I’d probably do lots of things more if I could be bound while doing them.
The correct response is probably “How much do you like to give?”.
A number of people have asked me if pain and giving oral are the only things I’m into. This couldn’t be further from the truth. I probably at the top of my mind lately though since sadists are so hard to come by and it’s a a curiosity that has me a bit beside myself.
I mean, I know why I like bondage, I know why I like a lot of things. But I still don’t know why I’m curious about CBT and a million other forms of pain/torture.
I recently joined this BDSM social networking site Fetlife. On it they have a list of kinks that you can check off and show your degree of interest. As I went through the list I kept shaking my had at how much there is that I have yet to try. I also found a few things I had never even considered before.
I only recently discovered the joys of being whipped. Holy fuck is that amazing. If half of my curiosities are as amazing as being whipped I’m in big trouble. Holy fuck that’s addicting.
Even though I loved it I still don’t know how much I can take. How does one measure that?
What is the best answer to that question? What answer does a dominant woman want to hear? What turns her on most?
“A Plethora of Pain”
“How much would you like?”