Monthly Archives: January 2009

Not So Fast

This is the part that I hate, the leaving part. My body aches for multiple reasons, all of them good. I feel drained of sex and full from cuddling. I can feel that dreaded moment come where I walk out that door and back into a world where things rarely make sense. Things make sense…

FYI

I was really excited when I walked past this store today.    It turns out it’s more of a hardware store than an S/M hardware store. I asked the manager if there was some secret room in the back where I could find the good stuff but he just looked at me like I was…

Sugasm #157

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #158? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set. This…

Fuckless Fucking

Almost all of my experiences in BDSM have been non-sexual. That is to say, most of my experiences have been play that didn’t include penetrative sex.    Up until a few years ago I never would have thought that any kind of play without intercourse would have been worthwhile. Back then I always felt it…

Remote Control

Someone emailed me a link to DreamLover Labs last week and I’ve been thinking about the possibilities. Here’s what they claim:   ”DreamLover Labs is committed to bringing the full power of today’s miniaturized sensors, actuators and microcontrollers to the world of sensual power exchange. DreamLover Laboratories offers high tech male management devices for playful and/or…