A man with a strong submissive and kinky side. I write (in the loosest sense of the word), podcast and socialize in New York City
I experienced my first over-the-knee spanking!
Actually I have experienced it once before, a friend was celebrating her birthday and instead of getting spanked she decided to spank someone else. We were surrounded by friends, she was clothed, I was clothed, it wasn’t sexual, it was all in good fun.
This time it was different on many levels. First of all I was naked.
I’ve read about them before. I’ve seen plenty of photos on the subject. It always looked a bit silly to me. It was one of those things that i just didn’t understand.
I understand it now.
It was a total surprise. As with most new things I experience, it wasn’t planned. Maybe she planned it but I hadn’t a clue. One minute she and I were casually talking and the next thing I know I was naked and laying across her lap.
I felt exposed and vulnerable. Her warm and soft but firm hands moving over my back, down my ass and gently pressing my thighs followed by a strong thwack.
Being spanked has never been on the top of my list of to-do’s but while she was doing it, I couldn’t imagine wanting anything else.
She’d slap my ass hard and my body would react. I’m sure she could feel how hard I was, pressed into her lap and every slap would force my body to thrust a little.
She started to slap over and over and over again, not giving my body time to process it and my head arched up. She noticed it and seized the opportunity to grab be by the hair and keep my head in that position.
Her hands would wander, she’d make a comment about how much she enjoyed view and would continue. Every swat drove me deeper and deeper.
I’ve learned I enjoy feeling objectified, she certainly made me feel that way. Caressing me then abusing me, talking about the shades of red my ass was turning and moaning as she took pleasure from the way my body was reacting despite myself.
I don’t know how long it lasted maybe 10 minutes or an hour.
I only know I wasn’t the same person when I crawled off her lap as when I crawled on.
As with all things, I know it wasn’t so much the act as it was the person doing it. Still, I’ll have a different appreciation for it when I see or read about it from now on.
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I am so pleased you had the opportunity to experience this! I’ve only had an OKT a few times, and each time felt very special. The intimacy of it is something I didn’t know what there until I had it.
xx Dee
How fun! I am glad you enjoyed it AND discovered something about yourself at the same time.
Mmmm…..tasty.
Its a great experience–and I think you also experienced something else…
“Being spanked has never been on the top of my list of to-do’s but while she was doing it, I couldn’t imagine wanting anything else.”
That feeling is a key (at least for me) in D/s. You know my Mistress, she is a sadist, and I am not a masochist to match her. But while I am tied up, being whipped or caned–there is nothing else I can imagine wanting.
Its a sign of surrendering your pleasures to her–at least I think so.
I’m with Lethrs: loved the “couldn’t imagine wanting anything else” quote. If only more subs could find their way to that headspace!
I am also glad you experienced it, and had a great time. And I also really didn’t get it until I got one, and then, wow! Total intimacy and control. (Er, he had the control, not me.
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Been some time since I’ve been around. Glad you hear you’ve had some fun.
Sweeeeeet.
Oh, I’m so glad that you this incredible experience.
I love spanking men over my knee. While there is something lovely about a woman’s body, there is something completely irresistible about a naked man, pushed over your knee, so vulnerable and open to you. Mmmm, I think you may have inspired me to write a post about spanking men!
Oh yay! I am so happy you got to experience it and enjoyed it, the first time I experienced it I was very surprised at how my body reacted, I wasn’t quite sure I would like it but nowdays .. yuuum! x
“As with all things, I know it wasn’t so much the act as it was the person doing it. Still, I’ll have a different appreciation for it when I see or read about it from now on.”
So so true
Merry Christmas, axe..Hope you are busy getting more spankings!
Best wishes for a wonderful kinky 2009!
~s/nik
Looks like things are looking up
. Hope you get more experiences like this soon….
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Wonderfully-written, spanktastic post.
Cheers,
Dave
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I don’t know how I missed reading this.
It’s good to know that the pleasures of OTK
can be felt by a man. I’ve often wondered what it
would be like to have my bottom spanked by a woman.
I’m sure you’re correct in the “because it was her,” belief.
I think a lil spanking, between consenting adults, is
a wonderful opportunity. I’m positive now, after reading
your post, I wouldn’t say, “no,” were the tables turned.
Cheers,
SinfullyAnon.
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